LOVE EXPIRY

In order to get to the expiry part, i would like to recall the PLS. Now, what the H@$* is PLS stand for...BIG NO is your answer is shortform for Puhlsss a.k.a please... at least not in my vocab.

PLS that i’m talking about here is...

Pre-Love Syndrome & Post-Love Syndrome.

First thing first, don’t this line sound familiar to all of us..

Saya CINTAkan awak

I LOVE you

Aishiteru

Saranghae

Mahal Kita

Woaini

Ti amore

Forgive my spelling as i only type what seem to sound alike after years of obsessively watching all kind of love story from not so around the world..

I like to called Pre-Love-Syndrome as the honeymoon of a relationship. A phase where everything seems perfect, full with beautiful smile, laughter and where what wrong seems to be right. It is more of a phase which the lovebird wants to know each other better.

In between of getting to know each other better and get closer, here come another phase which is called Post-Love-Syndrome.

A phase full of IF and WISH

A phase of i WISH we could done it better.

IF only we can turn back time.

 A time where my emotion come first than your feeling. Whatever went wrong is your mistake.

We could be better IF only you at least put an effort to get to know me and understand me better.

A phase of love challenges where only true love will get through it whereby the weakness get left behind.

 A phase full of argument, sulking and crying just because every little thing counts. Tears have become your midnight company.

Is love really have their own expiry? Expiry can be defined as the end of the period for which something is valid. Now, love sure is a valid thing.

Therefore should we just wait until the expiry??

I say if we can't stop the expiry than why not try to delay it. Sometimes thing expires early than it should be while sometimes it still can be digesting even after expiry. We could never know the real outcome of it. It can become poison or it actually gives you no harm at all. Even after one finding it can be alter after another finding. All you need is to study it and understand it well. Just like the story of the great finding of YAKULT!! I know everyone familiar with yakult right?? The  is a probiotic milk-like product made by fermenting a mixture of skimmed milk with a special strain of the bacterium Lactobacillus casei Shirota that do good for your digestive system. But do you know the real story behind the great finding??

If you are not aware, let me share with you the story that my dental shared with me after she went to the dentistry conference. It all starts with the attempt of the suicide by one of the founder, Prof. Mechnikov. He consumed mixtures of what he thought could be dangerous bacteria due to the sadness of losing his beloved wife. Both of his wives died because of cancer. It is a miracle, he did not die. Therefore, he did a study on the bacteria together with his lab partner, Minoru Shirota and guess what!! The bacteria that he thought could harm his body actually did vise versa. Now, do you get my point??

What i am trying to say is...simply don’t give up on love or in everything just because you already hit the expiry. There is no guarantee as life itself is a mystery. Try to find the good of it instead of jumping to the conclusion that the love you have already expiry and it is time to put an end to it. And if after doing all the best you can do, it still did not work out then only do what need to be done.

Just live your life the best you can be and find the true happiness that you are longing for. I am sure that deep down inside we all know what we want most in life. If love it is, then find your true love without worry of the expiry.