LDR

1.4.2013

We are officially together!!
Yup, together in term of finally we will be able to undergo the real married couple concept. I mean, we been living in separate country for 3 months after we get married. Even before, we been in a long distance relationship for about..2-3 years. Then, what's the whole point of getting hitch right!

Even nowadays, long distance relationship (LDR) is common among partners. The key of success are trust and patience, so they said. But for me personally, it takes more than trust and patience to make the relationship stay strong.

Trust me. I been in the LDR for quite sometimes. I used to think the LDR going to be fine after we got married. Ties the knot meant u forever vow to be the crime partner for each other and felt secured. So why must burden your mind,heart and soul just to felt worried caused we are separated by thousand miles.

But..i am wrong. LDR get even worse after we got married. Caused i am expecting to spend my every minutes and day with my husband. I want to play the real wife role. I want to take care of his needs. Being in LDR mean we can only spent the weekend together, twice per month if we even lucky. Sometime it's only once per month. The painful goodbye and back to living a singlehood life. Even a pile of phone call and text are not enough.

Therefore i am so grateful that finally my prayer had been answered. I hope from now on, we really can live the husband-wife life and actually being for each other. The closer we get the better we feel. Because at the end of the day, what matter the most is the memories we made and the feeling throughout the making. We only live once. I want to create a hell of the memories in my life with him in the rail.

Of course LDR is not the reason of many break ups and being closer doesn't guaranteed happily ever after. But if it's a choice, i choose to live our happiness and misery with him just a step away, without a doubt.